In his latest submissions, Counselor Lutterodt said that it is unwise for a lady to be spending heavily on a man who hasn’t married her yet. He said that any lady who spends lavishly on men with the hope of the man marrying them one day is either stupid, ugly, overused who has never experienced true love.
Speaking in an interview on Kastle FM, he said that a lady does not need to sponsor a man if she truly believes that she is beautiful and has all the vital statistics in place, and is appealing to a lot of men.
The counselor also said that the only situation where a lady is allowed to spend is when she is legally married to a man. He said that there is nothing wrong with a wife spending lavishly on her husband but it is wrong for her to treat her ordinary boyfriend the same way.
“The only ones that we spend money on is the husband or wife that is we spend on those that we are legally married to. So during ordinary relationships you don’t have to spend too much on your lover”, he said.
“Anyone that spends heavily in an ordinary relationship is a big fool and you’re not civilized because in the first place you should have legitimacy in trying to give to somebody. If it’s a gift you know or if it’s help you are giving as a result of being an NGO or philanthropist we should also know,” he added.
He concluded by saying; In a relationship, you can’t justify your giving and it doesn’t make sense to take care of someone and expect the person to marry you in return.